On this site

• Christadelphians and Same-Sex Relationships: an introduction
  • What a Christadelphian should believe
    What does it mean to be a Christadelphian, and if you are a Christadelphian, what should you believe about same-sex relationships?
  • Understanding gay Christadelphians
    As a gay Christadelphian, I encountered a lot of prejudice and misunderstanding. The majority of it was not malicious. In this article I explain some of the things I wanted other Christadelphians to understand about me.
  • Growing up Christadelphian and gay
    I grew up in a Christadelphian family, but unlike most of my peers, I was gay. In this article, I describe what that was like, and the particular challenges I faced.
  • What the Bible says about same-sex relationships
    There are really only six passages in the Bible that can be used as primary evidence that all same-sex relationships are wrong. In this article I look at what they really say.
  • Would you fellowship me?
    This article is a simple challenge to Christadelphians. I describe my current beliefs, my current circumstances in life, and ask if you would fellowship me – and if not, what would I have to do before you would. Probably the most important page on this site.
• Someone I Love is Gay
  • Some definitions
  • Same-sex relationships are just like opposite-sex relationships
  • It is OK to be scared
  • What should a Christadelphian believe?
  • Moving forward
  • Support
  • Further reading
  • Appendices
    • When it all goes wrong
    • The danger of ‘conversion therapy’

Elsewhere

• Same-Sex Relationships: 1 Corinthains and 1 Timothy
  There are two passages from the New Testament that are often quoted as proof that you cannot be gay and Christian: 1 Corinthians 6.9–10 and 1 Timothy 1.9–10. There are many conflicting translations. This page analyses the passages in the wider Christian context of  what Christ said about inheriting the Kingdom of God.
• The Most Frightening Words in the Bible
  A Christadelphian exhortation based on the vice lists (which include 1 Corinthains 6:9-10 and 1 Timothy 1:10) and the application for today.
• Translations of arsenokoites and malakos
  A list of multiple translations of 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 and 1 Timothy 1:10.
• Andrew McFarland Campbell’s Guide to Debunking the Six Traditional Clobber Passages 
  A very quick introduction to how I understand the passages traditionally used to say that same-sex relationships are wrong.
• Jonathan Loved David
  A same-sex relationship described in the Old Testament.

Useful Books

• The Children Are Free [Amazon.com] [Amazon.co.uk]
  A quick and easy-to-read summary of the issues from an affirming viewpoint.
• What the Bible Really Says About Homosexuality [Amazon.com] [Amazon.co.uk]
  A readable introduction to what the Bible teaches about same-sex relationships.
• Jonathan Loved David [Amazon.com] [Amazon.co.uk]
  Another interesting book from an affirming viewpoint.
• Wrestling with God and Men [Amazon.com] [Amazon.co.uk]
  About being an Orthodox Jew and gay. Has good discussion of the Leviticus passages.